What sucks, is that sometimes, you don't even know that you have been friend zoned. You keep waiting around for the guy, thinking that one day he'll come around and see that you've been there all along and are the right girl for him.
Sentimental at its best.
When you finally realize that this is never going to happen, you begin to get down on yourself and wonder what's wrong with you, why doesn't he want to be with you. This can become very self-deprecating.
The truth is there is nothing wrong with you. Majority of the time, there is something wrong with him. It doesn't matter what his excuses are for why he doesn't want to be with you, if any guy is willing to lead you on and not be honest, he's not worth your time.
The worst part is when the guy expects you to wait. Keeps leading you on, telling you that they're interested, but then disappears for days on end and expect that you're going to stay. And we wait for them! I don't know why we do this. It becomes frustrating not knowing the truth, and the truth is, they love the way we linger. It's a game to them - see how long she'll wait for me, and when I'm not busy she'll be there waiting for me.
Girls, we need to stop allowing this. If a guy is going to treat you this way, don't wait around for him. Move on. It's his loss in the end.
There's no need to stay in the friend zone waiting for some guy. It may be hard, but there is a guy out there who doesn't see you as 'friend zone' material, and actually wants to be with you.
Patience is a virtue.
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